Saturday, June 15, 2013

Five Minute Friday: Listen

Listen...
I have not been listening, listening to my body and what it needs. I am learning, learning to listen. Learning to put in place the things that need to be there to be better. Better at being me, better at being a wife to my hubby and mother to my precious three. 
I am learning to listen attentively too, learning that it is important for those around me to be heard. For them to feel safe when I hear them and they need to be heard. I am listening for His quiet voice that promises so much...things I have heard but not taken in. Listening, hearing and learning. We all need to listen and we all need to be heard . 

Five Minute Friday

"Unscripted, unedited, real" Lisa- Jo Baker
Write for five minutes on the given topic, link up at Lisa- Jo's blog and encourage the person who linked up before you. Have fun!

Monday, June 3, 2013

A visit to Montebello and Rhodes Memorial

Two weekends ago we were planning a visit to the Waterfront but as the weather was turning nasty, though not nearly as nasty as this past weekend, we decided to visit Montebello Design Centre instead.
 Montebello has on site design studios, exhibition areas, shops, a restaurant as well as businesses. They have a job creation outreach programme with craft and design in townships and rural areas, as well as adult and child education programmes available to the general public. The buildings and land were the birth place of Ohlssons Brewery and Continental China. It was a treat to explore and certainly somewhere to visit again.


As we got out of the car, the fresh scent of wood filled the air and we discovered two men, hard at work, carving the most incredible wooden sculptures...


Everywhere we looked, there was something different to see...


We ventured on into the nursery area....


Something eye catching at every turn....


The greenhouse was filled with all sorts of treasures....


Beautiful things everywhere... 


Though looking rather solemn, I loved this "family" gathered around Peace in the Home..


Hearts and more....


The shop has a wide range of crafts on sale...


Delightfully scented handmade soaps, beautiful bead-work...


African animals, Tutu dolls, brightly coloured pottery and more... 


The weather was turning and we decided to quickly visit Rhodes Memorial as it was nearby. 
The kids said they had never been there, but I am sure they have just forgotten that they had when they were much younger!


The memorial is situated on the lower slope of Devil's Peak, said to be Rhodes' favourite spot. 
Despite the icy winds, the kids enjoyed gallivanting up and down the 49 granite steps, one for each year of his life.


We enjoyed the views of our city and discovering places we haven't been before....

Last of May and counting on

Thankfully counting His goodness and mercy....

Day 25
1533) thankful for fun family time out today, exploring new places
1534) sharing a simple meal around the table with the kids and hubby
1535) a nap when feeling exhausted today

Day 26
1536) a gift worn: my boots, cosy and comfy on this rainy day
1537) gift white:  bowl filled with steaming hot soup for dinner

Day 27
1538) visitors that made me smile
1539) sounds of guitar and giggling as my oldest taught his students

Day 28
1540) all wrapped in blankets and keeping cosy as we did our school reading today

Day 29
1541) at gift around 8h00: a call from my dad
1542) around 12h00: chai latte and chats with girlfriends
1543) around 20h00: houseful of noisy, happy teens having fun

Day 30
1544) my sweet baby nephew here for the evening, bedtime prayers and his sweet "amen" 

Day 31
1545) walk in the forest with my youngest this morning
1546) finding yogurts and cheese in my fridge, gift from the neighbour
1547) leftover dinner after a long day

June
Day 2
1548) my daughter baking 
1549) neighbours in pjs and gowns coming over for scones, jam and cream and a warm fire on this freezing evening

Day 3
1550) gift in today's conversations:  chatter and laughter with my daughter as she did chores and I cooked this evening
&
1551) my eldest passing his learner driver's license first time round today :)


Friday, May 24, 2013

Five Minute Friday : View

View...outside there is no view right now, the mist has rolled in, dark, like it did this week. Thick and heavy, brightness disappearing. I know the sun will rise in the morning and burn the mist away. I know that He too is greater than this dark and present mist and He is able. Able to conquer, more able than I think right now. Able to make that mist go and able to make the sun shine brighter again. His view is bigger and better than what I see now. I need to focus on His view and not what it looks like right now. His view of the bigger picture and the future. His plan is better than what is seen right now and that is what counts. I need to rest in His peace and anticipate the brighter day.

Five Minute Friday

"Unscripted, unedited, real" Lisa- Jo Baker
Write for five minutes on the given topic, link up at Lisa- Jo's blog  and encourage the person who linked up before you. Have fun!

May's mercy despite madness...

Yes, May has been mad but there have been moments of blessing and mercy.
 I choose to continue being thankful to God ....

Day 7
3 gifts about my home
1488) my kids about the house all day, us learning together, growing together and sharing together
1489) our awesome neighbourhood, just today, delicious dinner made with ingredients contributed by 3 households and shared among 3 households
1490) our garden, quietly lying outside in the shade and reading aloud to my youngest
&
1491) a call from an up country friend today that made a big difference, His timing for sure
1492) His protection over my mom in law as intruders entered her home in the dark of night, thankful she was unharmed

Day 8
1493) hubby bringing home pods of coffee he was given and the loan of my dear neighbour's machine so we can enjoy the coffee 
1494) a cute teapot made just for me 
1495) call from my farm sister

Day 9
1496) mother's day treat of Le Fish spa treatment
1497) dinner by hubby when my neck was incredibly painful

Day 10
1498) a gift outside...a friend popping by unexpectedly and enjoying the sunshine with me
1499) inside...happy teens cooking the evening meal and chattering away
1500) upside down...my youngest boy caring for me even though he is sick, warming a bean bag to ease my painful neck

Day 11
3 gifts about my parents
1501) such a blessing to have a long chat with my mum this morning, encouraged by her always
1502) my dad's sense of humour, always makes me laugh
1503) hubby's parents, good to see them today and celebrate my father in law's birthday

Day 12
3 gifts held in hand today
1504) hugs from my 3
1505) my favourite chocolate from my eldest boy
1506) pain killers sent by a friend that  finally worked for my neck

Day 13
1507) gift found in my mum.... a call and prayers from all the staff at her work as soon as she heard my daughter had been hurt, comforting to know she was praying
&
1508) seeing the care and concern my boys showed for their sister who needed sutures in her foot

After this day, it became a blur....
days were difficult, challenges of their own and more unbelievable storms to come... 
as I write now I reminisce and count the joys despite the heart breaking challenges

1509) coffee and overdue catch up with a dear friend
1510) my youngest feeling stronger each day as medication kicked in and cleared infections
1511) the doctor confirming that my eldest seemed to just have a virus and not the return of glandular fever
1512) treated to take outs for lunch by a sweet friend
1513) a beautiful gift that arrived late from my daughter in celebration of Mother's Day
1514) long and fast beach walk on a beautiful day, clearing the head somewhat


1515) gift found in little people: laughs and giggles with my nephew, 
him sleeping peacefully next to me, his sweet kisses and cute conversation
1516) my sweet girl treating me to coffee and cake 
1517) good sound advice
1518) connecting with each member of my far away family during a difficult time
1519)  tight hugs from my eldest as my body shook with sorrow
1520) gifts of laughter: hearty laughs with my precious three
1521) hubby's hugs
1522) naps when I could not not any more after almost sleepless nights
1523) celebrating a dear friend's birthday and her delight in the gift I made her
1524) catching up with a friend from long ago
1525) my sweetpea writing her first ever exam and feeling confident
1526) gift in a plate: treated to take out dinner by my brother
1527) gifts in community: dear friends who have checked up and encouraged me daily
1528) gift sweet: my ever sensitive youngest, knowing just when his mom could do with a hug
1529) my daughter recovered well, stitches out today
1530) enough coins dug out of my purse to treat the kids to cinnamon doughnuts this morning
1531) hubby making dinner tonight, a blessing for me to have a night off at the end of this week
1532) knowing that despite it all....But God......


Friday, May 17, 2013

Five Minute Friday : Song

Yes, I made it to Friday and I am writing real and brave...

Song...when the song is gone its not easy...."so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you"...yes mistakes have been made, "guilty feet have got no rhythm".  The song is gone. I cant find my song right now. 
The song of the ocean calls and the bird song. I didn't hear them today.
 Perhaps tomorrow will be a better day. Birdsong reminding me that He sees each sparrow and cares for them ..... not one is forgotten by Him. 
I have forgotten my song, I will find it again, I know I will or perhaps its time to dance to a new song. A simple song, a life long song. 

Five Minute Friday

"Unscripted, unedited, real" Lisa- Jo Baker
Write for five minutes on the given topic, link up at Lisa- Jo's blog  and encourage the person who linked up before you. Have fun!

Friday, May 10, 2013

Five Minute Friday : Comfort

Comfort...
Memories of home and my mum, my mum always brings me comfort. Missing her today and everyday. Her smile, her voice, her prayers and encouragement always comforting. She is just too far away. Miss her tea drinking and her delicious omelettes that she "has to make" when she visits.
Comfort in my sisters homes, comforted by memories of the life we had growing up together and things from our childhood home. Comfortable with them, home from home
Comfort here and now, my hubby's hugs , his hand holding mine. Comfort when the kids pile onto our bed for a chat. Comfort eating food that was regular food when we grew up. Comfort when my kids are all safely at home after a night out. Comfort when we have one on one time together. Comfortable together.

Five Minute Friday


"Unscripted, unedited, real" Lisa- Jo Baker
Write for five minutes on the given topic, link up at Lisa- Jo's blog  and encourage the person who linked up before you. Have fun!